No, well yes

I wrote a post about saying no. I’m pretty sure that i said sometimes you get talked into something and it ends up being a good thing you did. Where you’re happy you didn’t say no.

I recently said no. Then I said yes. It was a really good decision to say yes.

I have this feeling 2022 is gonna be a really good year. However, January was a bit of a rough start I won’t lie. So then February came and I was like yes okay another month. The residual affects of January just happened to hit on a day my friends wanted to hang out. I had gone out the night before and I was like eh not again. I’ll stay home read and I’ll be all good. The day had been emotional for me and I just kinda wanted to be alone.

My friends were not having it. Not even a little bit. Started with a facetime where I said no thanks. The the chat was lighting up. Calling me lame wasn’t getting me to change my mind. I told them give me ten reasons why I should. So they did. They were not good reasons at all. Not even real reasons. It made me laugh though that the effort was being put. So, I relented and said yes.

We got to where we planned on going and to be honest I wasn’t with it. I was like let’s leave. I had suggested we zipline. I was ready to do anything but what we were doing and I felt the need to have a little adrenaline.

I’d like to mention that I think car rides with friends are the most fun ever. Just music, conversation and people you love. I laughed a lot that car ride downtown it felt like.

We get down town to the only place you can zipline and the three of us were like no we’re good. We are just downtown no clue what’s next.

So then another friend was like let’s walk at this place. So we did. We drove and we walked, talked, sat in grass. In February in the cold. Just because we were looking for something to do.

It’s midnight at this point and I’m hungry. I’m really pushing for some sonic I won’t lie. Then we got the suggestion of Pop’s. I’ve eaten there a total of once before that night so I was for it. Five of us pile in to the car all seats taken.

We get there, order, talk, freeze. The usual.

The whole point of this is that I was way down. I was saying no. This night though, happened to be one of the best nights I’ve had in a really long time. I spent it with people I love and make me laugh. We just did a bunch of random things in good company. I felt so much better when I got home.

Thank you to my friends you fill my heart with so much love.

Say yes sometimes. It could be good for you.

With my thoughts on the internet,

RJC